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Golden Afternoons & Woolly Socks: Simple Pleasures for Chilly Days

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By Soul Essence New Eltham London UK

There’s a special kind of magic in the slow afternoons of autumn. The sun sits lower in the sky, casting everything in a warm golden glow. The air feels crisp, the pace gentler, and suddenly, the simplest things — a soft blanket, a steaming cup of tea, a pair of woolly socks — become small treasures.

As the chill sets in, life invites us to notice what truly comforts us. We start to find joy in the moments we might overlook in busier times — the warmth of a mug between our hands, the sound of rain against the window, the gentle light that fills a quiet room. These are the simple pleasures that make chilly days feel not just bearable, but beautiful.

The Comfort of Slowing Down

When the world outside turns cool, our natural instinct is to slow down too. There’s less rush, less noise, and more space to breathe. This slower rhythm can feel like a gift — a chance to rest, to reflect, and to savour.

You don’t need grand plans or perfect surroundings to enjoy a golden afternoon. Just take a moment to pause. Notice how the sunlight moves across the floor, or how the steam curls up from your tea. Wrap yourself in something warm and simply be for a while. Stillness, when we let it, can feel deeply restorative.

Creating Your Own Cosy Rituals

Simple pleasures often come from familiar rituals — the little routines that make life feel steady and safe. Perhaps it’s baking something fragrant, lighting a candle at dusk, or listening to soft music while you unwind. These small acts help us mark the change in seasons and create a comforting rhythm in our days.

You might also make time for a favourite pastime that soothes you — reading, knitting, writing, or even watching the light change outside your window. There’s no pressure to be productive. The aim is to enjoy the act itself, to allow yourself to rest without guilt.

Try creating a small corner that feels like your personal sanctuary. A cosy chair, a blanket, maybe a small table with your favourite book or journal. Having a space that welcomes you back to stillness can make a big difference on grey afternoons.

The Beauty of Ordinary Joy

It’s easy to think happiness comes from big moments, but often it’s found in the gentle ones. The smell of freshly baked bread. The sound of the kettle boiling. The first moment you slip your feet into warm socks after being out in the cold.

When we slow down enough to notice these tiny joys, life feels fuller, softer, and more grounded. Each small pleasure becomes a reminder of abundance — not in material things, but in the richness of ordinary days.

The colder months encourage us to find beauty in simplicity. They teach us that peace doesn’t need to be planned — it can be found in the quiet glow of the afternoon sun and the comfort of being right where we are.

Journalling Prompt

Take a few peaceful minutes to write about this:

What are your favourite simple pleasures on chilly days?

How can you make more space for them in your daily life this season?

Think of the sights, scents, and feelings that bring you comfort. Let your writing remind you that joy often hides in the small, golden moments — the ones that warm you from the inside out.

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From September 26th, the monthly Friday morning meditations on the fourth week will resume at 11 am.

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Turning Inward: Finding Peace in Simplicity

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By Soul Essence New Eltham London UK

As the days shorten and the world outside quietens, there’s a natural pull to turn inward. Autumn and winter remind us to slow down, to breathe a little deeper, and to take comfort in simplicity. After the busyness of summer, this season offers us a softer pace — an invitation to rest, reflect, and reconnect with ourselves.

In a world that often celebrates constant activity, stillness can feel strange at first. But there’s a quiet strength in slowing down. When we stop filling every moment with noise, we begin to hear the gentle rhythm of our own lives — the calm beneath the surface, the steady beat that has always been there.

The Beauty of a Simple Life

Simplicity doesn’t mean doing less of what we love — it means making more space for what truly matters. It’s about clearing away the clutter, both physical and emotional, so that peace has room to grow.

You might start by simplifying your surroundings. Clear a small corner of your home where you can sit in calm and comfort. A chair by the window, a candle on the table, a soft blanket over your knees. These small choices create a sense of order and ease.

Simplicity can also be found in routine. A quiet cup of tea in the morning, a short walk in the afternoon, or a few minutes of journalling before bed. When we give ourselves the gift of simple habits, we create moments of stillness in an otherwise busy world.

Listening to the Quiet

Turning inward doesn’t mean shutting the world out — it means tuning in to what’s already within. It’s about listening to your thoughts and feelings without judgement.

Try sitting in silence for a few minutes each day. Notice how it feels. At first, your mind might rush with to-do lists or worries. That’s okay. Let the thoughts come and go, like leaves floating on a stream. Gradually, you’ll begin to find a sense of calm beneath the noise.

You might also notice the small details around you — the light falling on the floor, the scent of your morning coffee, the gentle hum of life outside your window. These quiet moments remind us that peace doesn’t need to be searched for — it can be found in the present moment.

Letting Go of More

Often, finding peace means letting go of expectations, comparisons, and the need to do it all. Simplicity gives us permission to be enough, just as we are.

Ask yourself: what can you release this season? Perhaps it’s an old routine that no longer feels right, a habit that leaves you drained, or even the constant pressure to keep busy. The more we let go of what weighs us down, the lighter and freer we become.

The beauty of simplicity lies in its honesty. It doesn’t ask us to change who we are — only to notice what truly brings us joy, comfort, and contentment.

Reflection Prompt

Take a few minutes to sit quietly and reflect on this:

Where in your life could you welcome more simplicity?

What might you gain by slowing down, letting go, or creating a little more space for peace?

Write down three small ways you could bring calm and simplicity into your days — not as a list of tasks, but as gentle intentions to guide you through the season.

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From September 26th, the monthly Friday morning meditations on the fourth week will resume at 11 am.

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Seasonal Self-Care: Little Luxuries for Chilly Days

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By Soul Essence New Eltham London UK

As autumn settles in and the air grows cool, our bodies and minds begin to crave warmth, rest, and gentle care. The pace of summer slows, and the world around us softens into golden tones and quiet evenings. It’s the perfect time to turn inward — to care for ourselves in small, meaningful ways that bring comfort and calm to chilly days.

Self-care doesn’t have to be grand or complicated. It’s often found in the simple moments — a cup of tea warming your hands, soft socks on cold floors, or a few minutes of quiet before the day begins. These little luxuries remind us that we deserve care, no matter how busy life gets.

1. Wrap Yourself in Warmth

There’s something deeply soothing about feeling warm when the world outside turns cold. Wrap yourself in a blanket, slip on your favourite jumper, or make time for a hot bath at the end of the day. Let warmth become a small ritual of comfort — a signal to your body that it’s time to rest.

You might even create a “cosy corner” in your home — a chair by the window, a soft lamp, and a good book. A simple space that invites stillness and helps you recharge.

2. Slow Down and Savour

Autumn invites a slower rhythm, and that can be a form of self-care in itself. Try doing one thing at a time, with full attention. Whether it’s preparing a meal, walking through fallen leaves, or sipping something hot, give yourself permission to enjoy it fully.

When you move more slowly, you begin to notice more — the scent of spices in the kitchen, the sound of rain on the windows, the softness of light at dusk. These moments of mindfulness help calm a busy mind and remind you that peace often lives in the simplest things.

3. Nourish Yourself Well

Colder days call for hearty, warming meals. Soups, stews, baked fruit, or porridge can bring comfort from the inside out. Cooking doesn’t have to be a chore — it can be a loving act of care for yourself.

Take time to notice how food makes you feel. Choose what nourishes, what feels grounding and kind to your body. Eating slowly, with gratitude, turns an ordinary meal into a small luxury.

4. Rest Without Guilt

As the days shorten, our energy naturally dips — and that’s completely normal. Autumn teaches us that rest is not laziness; it’s renewal. Try to give yourself permission to pause when you need to.

A short nap, an early night, or simply doing less for a day can make a big difference. Listen to your body’s cues and let rest become a natural part of your self-care routine.

5. Find Joy in the Small Things

Self-care also means finding little sparks of joy in everyday life. Maybe it’s writing in your journal, listening to music, lighting a candle, or chatting with a friend. These are the things that lift your mood and remind you that even the darkest days have warmth hidden within them.

Joy doesn’t always come in grand moments — often, it’s in the small gestures that make us feel seen, safe, and soothed.

Journalling Prompt

Take a few quiet minutes to write about this:

What small comforts bring you warmth and peace on a chilly day?

How could you weave more of these simple luxuries into your daily life this season?

Think about what self-care really means to you — not as a task to complete, but as an ongoing act of kindness towards yourself.

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If you want to join a meditation group, Soul Essence runs small groups. There are fortnightly online groups on Tuesday evenings and face-to-face groups on the 1st and 3rd Wednesday evenings.

From September 26th, the monthly Friday morning meditations on the fourth week will resume at 11 am.

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Morning Mist & Golden Light: Embracing the Beauty of Transition

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By Soul Essence New Eltham London UK

Autumn mornings carry a kind of quiet magic. The world wakes slowly, wrapped in a thin veil of mist. Dew glistens on the grass, and golden sunlight filters through the trees, soft and low. It’s a season that reminds us that change can be beautiful — that there is peace, even in the in-between.

The shift from summer to autumn often feels like a pause, a deep breath before the darker months ahead. The air grows cooler, the days a little shorter, and nature begins her graceful retreat. Yet within this transformation lies a gentle reminder for us too: change doesn’t always need to be rushed or resisted. Sometimes, it’s meant to be savoured.

The Quiet Power of Transition

We often think of change as something big or disruptive, but autumn teaches a softer truth. Transition can be steady, tender, and full of grace. Just as leaves don’t fall all at once, we too can take our time adjusting, releasing, and finding our balance.

When we step outside on a misty morning, we can feel this lesson all around us. The world isn’t in a hurry — the light lingers, the air holds its breath. There’s beauty in this patience, in the steady unfolding of the day.

Sometimes, we rush through change because we’re uncomfortable with not knowing what comes next. But nature shows us that the in-between can be calm and even comforting. It’s a space for reflection, preparation, and gentle growth.

Embracing Change with Presence

Embracing transition starts with noticing it. Pay attention to how the season shifts — the scent of damp leaves, the sound of rain on windows, the way the light moves through your home. These small signs remind us that transformation doesn’t have to be dramatic to be meaningful.

You might find comfort in creating a few simple routines that help you feel grounded during times of change. A warm cup of tea in the morning, a quiet moment by the window, or a short walk outside to greet the day. These small acts of presence can help you feel steady, even as everything else slowly transforms.

When you take time to pause, you give yourself permission to experience life as it unfolds — without needing to control or predict it. That’s where calm lives: not in certainty, but in acceptance.

The Beauty of Light and Shadow

The golden light of autumn mornings has a way of revealing what’s often overlooked. It highlights the shapes of branches, the shimmer of dew, and the warmth hidden within cooler days. There’s a lesson there too — even in times of transition, beauty remains. Sometimes, it simply appears in softer, subtler ways.

Just as the sun rises gently through the mist, we too can move through our own changes with quiet strength and grace. The world doesn’t rush the dawn — and neither should we.

Reflection Prompt

Take a few moments to think about where you are in your own season of change.

What transitions are you experiencing right now — big or small?

How might you bring more gentleness, patience, or gratitude to this in-between space?

Write about what this season is teaching you — about slowing down, letting go, or trusting the natural flow of things.

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If you want to join a meditation group, Soul Essence runs small groups. There are fortnightly online groups on Tuesday evenings and face-to-face groups on the 1st and 3rd Wednesday evenings.

From September 26th, the monthly Friday morning meditations on the fourth week will resume at 11 am.

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Wandering Through the Woods: Finding Stillness Among the Falling Leaves

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By Soul Essence New Eltham London UK

There’s something magical about walking through the woods in autumn. The air is cool and earthy, the light filters softly through the branches, and the ground beneath your feet becomes a tapestry of fallen leaves. Each step creates a quiet crunch — a sound that feels both grounding and peaceful.

In the midst of busy days and constant noise, a simple walk among the trees can feel like a deep breath for the soul. Nature has a way of slowing us down, of reminding us that it’s okay to pause. When we wander without rushing, we begin to notice the small details — the way the sunlight catches a leaf, the scent of damp earth, the quiet rhythm of the wind. These are the moments where stillness lives.

The Gentle Pull of Nature

Being outdoors in autumn feels like stepping into another world. The woods seem to hum with quiet energy. There’s change everywhere — trees letting go of their leaves, the air turning sharper, animals gathering before winter. Yet there’s no hurry, no stress. Everything moves at its own gentle pace.

When we spend time in nature, we start to match that rhythm. Our breathing slows. Our thoughts soften. The world feels less heavy. It’s in this calm space that we can find clarity — the kind that doesn’t come from thinking harder, but from simply being present.

You don’t have to go far to find this feeling. A park, a tree-lined path, or even a quiet garden can offer the same stillness. What matters is how you arrive — not with a checklist, but with curiosity and openness.

Walking with Awareness

Try taking your next autumn walk mindfully. Leave your headphones at home and let the natural sounds guide you — the birds calling, the leaves rustling, the branches creaking softly above. Feel the ground beneath your feet, notice the colours around you, and take slow, steady breaths.

If your mind starts to wander, gently bring it back to the present moment. Focus on what you can see, hear, and feel. Sometimes we discover peace not by escaping our thoughts, but by grounding ourselves in what’s right in front of us.

You might find it soothing to walk without a destination. Let the path lead you wherever it wants. There’s a certain joy in getting a little lost — not in the sense of confusion, but in rediscovering wonder.

Lessons from the Falling Leaves

Autumn is nature’s reminder that letting go can be beautiful. The trees release what they no longer need, trusting that spring will come again. There’s something deeply comforting in that cycle — a quiet message that endings can also be beginnings.

As you walk, you might reflect on what the season is teaching you. What are you ready to let go of? What might you need to release to make space for rest, renewal, or peace? The woods are patient listeners; they hold space for all your thoughts without judgement.

Journalling Prompt

After your next walk, take a few minutes to write:

What did you notice, hear, or feel while wandering through the woods?

Reflect on how the experience made you feel — calm, thoughtful, energised, or perhaps nostalgic. Then ask yourself: What might I learn from the stillness of the trees and the gentle act of letting go?

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If you want to join a meditation group, Soul Essence runs small groups. There are fortnightly online groups on Tuesday evenings and face-to-face groups on the 1st and 3rd Wednesday evenings.

From September 26th, the monthly Friday morning meditations on the fourth week will resume at 11 am.

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Five Ways to Create a Cosy Home Sanctuary This Autumn

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By Soul Essence New Eltham London UK

As the evenings grow darker and the air turns crisp, home becomes more than just a place to sleep — it becomes a sanctuary. Autumn invites us to retreat indoors, to slow down, and to create warmth in our surroundings and within ourselves. There’s something truly special about walking through the door, shutting out the chill, and feeling wrapped in comfort.

Creating a cosy home sanctuary isn’t about spending lots of money or achieving perfection. It’s about using what you have to make your space feel nurturing, calm, and deeply comforting. Here are five simple ways to bring that feeling to life this season.

1. Soften Your Space

Autumn is all about layers — and that applies to your home too. Add texture and warmth wherever you can. Soft blankets, thick throws, and plump cushions make a big difference. If you have wooden or tiled floors, pop down a small rug to take away the chill. Choose earthy tones and gentle colours — creams, rusts, and deep greens — to echo the season outside.

Even a single corner with a blanket and a comfy chair can become your own peaceful hideaway. A space to read, journal, or simply daydream as the world slows down outside your window.

2. Light the Glow

Lighting has a huge impact on how a space feels. As the days shorten, swap bright, overhead lights for softer, golden tones. Candles, fairy lights, and warm lamps can make your home feel instantly more inviting.

Try lighting a candle in the evening as a gentle signal that the day is winding down. The flicker of a flame or the soft twinkle of lights creates a calm atmosphere that soothes the mind. If you prefer natural scents, look for candles with hints of wood, spice, or citrus — fragrances that bring warmth to the air.

3. Bring Nature Indoors

Just because it’s colder outside doesn’t mean you can’t stay connected to nature. Autumn is full of simple treasures: pinecones, colourful leaves, branches with berries, and acorns. A small vase of foraged finds or a bowl of apples can instantly make your home feel more in tune with the season.

Plants, too, bring calm and freshness to indoor spaces. Even one or two can lift your mood and add a touch of life to your sanctuary.

4. Create Rituals of Comfort

Cosiness isn’t only about décor — it’s about how you spend your time at home. Think of small rituals that help you unwind. Maybe it’s making a pot of tea every afternoon, curling up with a good book, or playing gentle music as you cook dinner.

Rituals bring rhythm and comfort to daily life. They remind us to slow down, to notice the present moment, and to take care of ourselves in simple, nurturing ways.

5. Make Space for Stillness

Finally, remember that your home sanctuary isn’t just about comfort — it’s also about peace. Find one spot where you can simply be. A space free from screens, noise, or clutter. Sit there for a few minutes each day to breathe, stretch, or just listen to the quiet.

In a world that often feels busy and loud, these quiet moments at home are a gift.

Reflection Prompt

Take a few minutes to think about your space:

What makes your home feel cosy, safe, and comforting?

Write down five small changes or rituals that could help you create your own autumn sanctuary — not just for the season, but for your peace of mind all year round.

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From September 26th, the monthly Friday morning meditations on the fourth week will resume at 11 am.

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Mindful Moments for Crisp Mornings: Finding Calm in the Autumn Air

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By Soul Essence New Eltham London UK

There’s something special about an autumn morning. The air feels fresh, the light softens, and the world seems to move just a little slower. Stepping outside, you can see your breath in the cool air, hear the quiet rustle of fallen leaves, and feel the gentle bite of the season’s first chill. It’s a beautiful time to pause, breathe, and find calm before the day begins.

Autumn mornings invite us to be present. Unlike the busy rush of summer, this season encourages stillness. The shorter days remind us that rest and reflection are as important as movement and productivity. And one of the simplest ways to embrace this slower rhythm is to start the day with mindfulness — a few quiet moments that bring peace and focus before the world speeds up.

The Gift of a Slow Start

You don’t need a long routine or special equipment to begin your day mindfully. It’s about making space for awareness in the little things. Try starting your morning without immediately reaching for your phone. Instead, take a few deep breaths. Feel the warmth of your bed, notice the light coming through the window, and listen to the quiet sounds around you.

When you rise, move slowly. Make your tea or coffee with attention — the sound of the kettle, the scent of steam, the way the cup warms your hands. These are the details that help you anchor yourself in the moment. The calm you create in these early minutes can carry gently through your day.

Finding Calm in Nature

If you can, step outside for a few moments each morning. Even a short walk down the street or a few breaths by an open window can reconnect you with nature’s calm rhythm. Notice how the air feels against your skin, how the light filters through the trees, how the ground sounds underfoot.

Autumn mornings have a quiet beauty — the mist rising from the grass, the colours soft and muted, the world slowly waking. When you give yourself permission to simply observe, you begin to see these small wonders that often go unnoticed.

Creating Space for Stillness

Mindful mornings don’t have to be perfect or predictable. Some days will feel calm and centred; others will be a little messy — and that’s okay. What matters is intention. Even a few mindful moments can shift the tone of your day.

You might try gentle stretching, journalling, or simply sitting by the window for a few minutes before diving into your routine. Light a candle, play soft music, or wrap yourself in a blanket as you ease into wakefulness. Let your morning become a quiet ritual of self-kindness.

A Season for Presence

Autumn reminds us to slow down and notice the beauty in transition. The leaves fall, the air cools, and nature prepares to rest — a gentle mirror for what we might need too. Each morning is a small opportunity to begin again, to reset with intention, and to appreciate the simple act of being alive in this changing season.

Journalling Prompt

Take a few minutes to write about your mornings:

What small moments make you feel calm, centred, or grateful as the day begins?

Think about the sensations, sounds, or rituals that bring you peace. Could you create a mindful morning habit — even if it’s just five quiet minutes — to carry that calm into the rest of your day?n you invite more of them into your daily life this season?

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If you want to join a meditation group, Soul Essence runs small groups. There are fortnightly online groups on Tuesday evenings and face-to-face groups on the 1st and 3rd Wednesday evenings.

From September 26th, the monthly Friday morning meditations on the fourth week will resume at 11 am.

Contact Rosemary for more information.

The Art of Getting Cosy: Creating Warmth as the Days Grow Shorter

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By Soul Essence New Eltham London UK

As autumn deepens and the days grow shorter, we find ourselves reaching for the things that bring comfort. There’s something special about this time of year — when the light softens, the air cools, and home becomes our favourite place to be. Getting cosy isn’t just about thick socks and hot chocolate (though those certainly help); it’s also about creating a feeling of warmth and belonging, both around us and within us.

The Comfort of Simple Things

Cosiness often hides in the smallest details. The first sip of tea after coming in from the cold. The gentle hum of the kettle. The flicker of candlelight on a quiet evening. These are the simple, ordinary moments that help us slow down and feel at ease.

Creating a cosy space doesn’t need to be complicated or expensive. It can be as easy as placing a soft blanket on the sofa, keeping your favourite mug close by, or letting the smell of something baking fill the kitchen. Think of your home as a reflection of how you want to feel — calm, safe, and warmly held.

Bringing Warmth to Your Space

As the temperature drops, small touches can make your home feel snug and welcoming. Layer your space with soft textures — cushions, throws, rugs, and warm lighting. Swap bright bulbs for gentle lamps, and choose warm, golden tones that echo the glow of autumn leaves.

If you have a window that catches the morning or evening light, take a moment each day to sit there. Watch how the sunlight shifts, how the shadows lengthen. There’s beauty in noticing these quiet changes, in learning to match the rhythm of the season.

You might also bring a touch of nature indoors — a small branch of turning leaves, a pinecone from a walk, or a bowl of apples on the table. These natural details remind us that even as the world outside cools, life continues in a beautiful, steady cycle.

Cosy Rituals for the Season

Creating warmth isn’t only about your environment; it’s also about your routines. Try introducing small rituals that help you feel grounded. Perhaps it’s a slow breakfast by the window, reading before bed, or lighting a candle as the sun sets. These little acts signal to your mind that it’s time to rest and recharge.

Consider swapping screen time for something soothing — journalling, listening to soft music, or simply sitting in silence for a few minutes. When we give ourselves permission to slow down, we rediscover a kind of peace that’s often lost in busier months.

Warmth from Within

Cosiness also comes from how we treat ourselves and others. Take time to connect — share a meal, send a message, or simply check in on someone you care about. Warmth spreads when we offer kindness. The world outside may be cooling, but our hearts don’t have to.

Reflection Prompt

As the days grow shorter, what helps you feel warm, comforted, and at peace?

Take a few minutes to write or think about the small things — the textures, scents, sounds, and moments — that bring you a sense of cosiness. How can you invite more of them into your daily life this season?

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If you want to join a meditation group, Soul Essence runs small groups. There are fortnightly online groups on Tuesday evenings and face-to-face groups on the 1st and 3rd Wednesday evenings.

From September 26th, the monthly Friday morning meditations on the fourth week will resume at 11 am.

Contact Rosemary for more information.